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March, 2008

Adoption Issues at School

The school environment can present special challenges for children whose families were formed by adoption. Some traditional assignments can have unintended consequences, making students feel excluded and even alienated. Our teams of an adult adopted person and an adoptive parent will work with teachers and staff to raise awareness and explore ways to make your classrooms more inclusive of children from different types of families.

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Lifestory Books: Tools for Telling Their History

Instructor: Astrid Dabbeni
When:  TBA
Where: Portland, Oregon
Cost: $60 per person, $90 per couple
Note:  This class is a pre-requisite to the Lifestory Books Come Alive! series that starts January 6, 2011.

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Pictures along with age appropriate journaling provide an important connection for children to their unique history of the way they joined their adoptive family. Regardless of the type or amount of background information you have about your child before he or she came to you, it will be essential to create an appropriate record.

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What and When: Talking About Adoption With Your Child

Instructor: Astrid Dabbeni
Date: TBA
Time: 9 am to 1 pm
Where: SE UpLift Building, 3534 SE Main Street, Portland, OR 97214
Cost: $60 per person, $90 per couple

“How much did I cost?”
“Why didn’t my birthmother keep me?”
“Will I every get to meet my birthfamily?”
“Did my birthmother love me?”
“Why did you adopt me?”

Have you thought about how you will respond when your child asks such questions?

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Thinking of a Homeland Tour?

Homeland Tours: Creating a Positive Experience

A return visit to an adopted child’s homeland can be a very positive and rewarding experience. This workshop for adoptive parents will help them to make the most of this trip for them and their child. This class is not country specific and designed to meet the needs of all internationally adoptive families. Topics to be covered include:

  • Travel planning, creating a child centered trip
  • How homeland tours can help with identity
  • What is an appropriate age?
  • Preparing your child for culture shock
  • The decision to visit the orphanage or not
  • Search and reunion?
  • Tips for traveling with children
  • Staying healthy while traveling

Details
Instructor(s): Mina Bacigalupi
When: TBA
Where: TBA in Portland, Oregon
Cost: $30 per person

This class is also offered on a request basis; contact us for details.

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Transracial Parenting Workshop

Instructor: Astrid Dabbeni
When: May 5, 2012
Time: 9 am to 4 pm
Where: SE UpLift Building, Portland, OR
Cost: $90 person


 

 

 

The decision to adopt across racial and cultural lines is a lifelong commitment to exploring matters of race, confronting racism in all its forms and constantly developing new skills and aptitudes. This workshop will provide you with information, tools, and resources and create a sense of hope as you explore you and your children’s future as a transracial family. This workshop is appropriate for adoptive parents, waiting parents, and professionals.

Workshop topics will include:

  • Race matters
  • Development of racial identity
  • Cultural competence
  • Tools for creating positive outcomes
  • Talking to your child about race
  • Confronting racism
  • Personalizing culture

Here are some comments from past participants:

  • I would recommend this class to current and prospective transracial families. This class gives you tools and a sense of competency for being able to talk to your children about racial issues.
  • This class is a forum to talk about race. I think everyone learned to think differently about the role of parenting transracially, about the experience of being a minority in this culture, of having the combination of being of color, being adopted and having parents of a different race.
  • The thing I like about Astrid’s approach is that it is affirming. I appreciate that Adoption Mosaic focuses on the triad.
  • Thank you for your openness and honesty – a model for us as parents.

This class is also offered on a request basis; contact us for details.

Cancellation Policy
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Transracial Parenting Series

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The decision to adopt across cultural and racial lines is a lifelong commitment to exploring matters of race, confronting racism in all its forms and constantly developing new skills and awareness. This series of three workshops will help you to identify assumptions, provide you with tools and resources, and create a sense of confidence as you explore your future as a transracial family.

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Transracial Adult Adoptee Panel

When: TBA
Where: TBA
Cost: $30 per person
Facilitator: Astrid Dabbeni

This panel is appropriate for adoptive parents, waiting parents and professionals.

Discussion Topics:

  • Importance of birth-family, birth culture, birth country, language
  • Identity – Race Identity, Cultural Identity and Family Identity
  • Communication with adoptive parents about adoption, race and culture
  • Recommendations for today’s adoptive parents 

This is a rare opportunity to hear the recommendations and insights first hand of transracial adoptees and an adoptive parent who are willing to share their experiences of raising and being raised in communities with parents, family, friends who were/are of a different race than their own.

Today’s adoptive families and professionals working with them are of a generation who, through education, have the opportunity to mitigate some of the challenges faced by adoptive parents of the past while learning to maneuver new challenges of today. Come listen, engage and learn what it is/was like for them to be adopted into a mixed race family in the United States. This panel of adult adoptees and one adoptive parent will share their experience of living in a transracial family.

This panel is also offered on a request basis; contact us for details.

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Adoption Readiness

A 2-Day Preparatory Class for Adoptive Parents

Instructor(s): Mina Bacigalupi and MereAnn Reid, MA
Date:  TBA
Time:  8:30 am to 2:30 pm
Location: OHSU, Portland, Oregon
Cost: $250.00 per family (singles are encouraged to bring a support person

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This comprehensive series is designed to meet most recommended pre-adoption education requirements for international or domestic adoption or to supplement agency trainings. We believe history is important in defining the issues adoptive children face and creating positive outcomes. Successful parenting comes from being fully aware and prepared for potential difficult issues that some families may face. Our goal is to provide participants with tools and resources for the lifelong adventure of being an adoptive family.
This 10 hour class (separated into two workshops) will include:

  • Adoption in the U.S.A
  • Becoming an adoptive family
  • The attachment process, parental claiming, and bonding
  • Communicating with and advocating for your child
  • Lifelong issues of adoption
  • Nurture vs. Nature
  • Adoptism, racism, and diversity in the U.S. culture
  • Preparing for the first hours and days of being an adoptive family

Here are some comments about this class from past participants:

  • Thank you for a safe environment to share our excitement and our fears.
  • Very, very eye-opening, and very positive too.
  • I liked all the first hand information we got from real experience.
  • Gave me brain food to review and plan for how to parent my new child.
  • This made me see the adoption process through my child’s eyes.
  • I feel much more prepared. Anyone adopting should take this class.

Adoption Readiness PDF
Cancellation Policy

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